eah, honestly it's meant be aggravating for the other person (that's sort of my jam). Because really, they love Bucky even if he killed hundreds of people, and took as many hydra dicks. And they tr to explain that, but Bucky won't have it.
So they have to sit through something really upsetting for both of them.
And yeah, it would be amazing if his partner did go to breaking point and snapped...because hell, that would be such a minefield.
And add to that, with Bucky being so neurotic about consent, soime of that would transfer to his lover, too, and they'd eventually start asking consent for everything, too (especially as they find out more about the abuse, so it's a messed up vicious circle)
Re: Bucky becomes obsessed about (in potentially dysfunctional ways)
So they have to sit through something really upsetting for both of them.
And yeah, it would be amazing if his partner did go to breaking point and snapped...because hell, that would be such a minefield.
And add to that, with Bucky being so neurotic about consent, soime of that would transfer to his lover, too, and they'd eventually start asking consent for everything, too (especially as they find out more about the abuse, so it's a messed up vicious circle)