I think that's up to the writer to decide. I'm a sex-positive ace myself; I enjoy the physical sensation of being touched intimately by a trusted partner even though I don't experience sexual attraction. In my relationships, I have never initiated sex, but I do respond positively when a partner initiates sex with me. Before I realised I was ace this caused some problems: one ex became convinced I didn't care about him because I never seemed to want him sexually like he wanted me (and technically it's true that I didn't, but that didn't mean I didn't love him romantically).
For me, the physical sensation of sex is enjoyable, but I've never looked at someone and had the impulse or desire to have sex with them. I haven't had sex in almost eight years and I don't miss it, but if I got an allosexual partner I would have sex with them if they wanted it and enjoy it well enough.
Bear in mind that sex-neutral and sex-repulsed aces have their own experiences, of course. :)
Re: Do ace people have kinks?
I think that's up to the writer to decide. I'm a sex-positive ace myself; I enjoy the physical sensation of being touched intimately by a trusted partner even though I don't experience sexual attraction. In my relationships, I have never initiated sex, but I do respond positively when a partner initiates sex with me. Before I realised I was ace this caused some problems: one ex became convinced I didn't care about him because I never seemed to want him sexually like he wanted me (and technically it's true that I didn't, but that didn't mean I didn't love him romantically).
For me, the physical sensation of sex is enjoyable, but I've never looked at someone and had the impulse or desire to have sex with them. I haven't had sex in almost eight years and I don't miss it, but if I got an allosexual partner I would have sex with them if they wanted it and enjoy it well enough.
Bear in mind that sex-neutral and sex-repulsed aces have their own experiences, of course. :)