OMG, how how how did I miss this comment? Thank you SO much for elaborating.
As for 1: Yes, I do try to draw parallels (and some might already have been set up but not worked out yet, but it's the parallels that might really mess with their heads.
2: I am so happy that came across! I chose to do it from Bucky's POV because that worked - but yes, while he perceives the choices as humiliating, that IS her way of setting limits (also her ordering to look at her is about her actually wanting to see his expressions, so she can at least partially check up on him) - glad it worked for you!
3: I was going for something similar. I think they both rationally know it's not the same, but they need to feel it, too. The're still on a very fine line of figuring that out.
4:This I actually added last, because I didn't want to do full-on aftercare, but I needed *something* there - and it was meant to be sort of wrong-but-cute, so hey :)
5: Thank you thank you thank you. I really am trying to build up that feeling of warmth (and hopefully, will manage to keep it in for later scenes, that are written, but I still need to knit together somehow).
Re: Tainted Touch 6d/?
As for 1: Yes, I do try to draw parallels (and some might already have been set up but not worked out yet, but it's the parallels that might really mess with their heads.
2: I am so happy that came across! I chose to do it from Bucky's POV because that worked - but yes, while he perceives the choices as humiliating, that IS her way of setting limits (also her ordering to look at her is about her actually wanting to see his expressions, so she can at least partially check up on him) - glad it worked for you!
3: I was going for something similar. I think they both rationally know it's not the same, but they need to feel it, too. The're still on a very fine line of figuring that out.
4:This I actually added last, because I didn't want to do full-on aftercare, but I needed *something* there - and it was meant to be sort of wrong-but-cute, so hey :)
5: Thank you thank you thank you. I really am trying to build up that feeling of warmth (and hopefully, will manage to keep it in for later scenes, that are written, but I still need to knit together somehow).