this is the most paggro thing i've read in days lmao. "you guys are SO nice and it just seems like this must be an oversight on your part, gosh, you're normally so considerate really, and i'm hardly asking for anything here, i just want something on the internet that was never designed to be a safe space to be a safe space for me personally, and if you all could just pitch in and do your part-- :') thx"