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garbage all the way down ([personal profile] trashmod) wrote in [community profile] hydratrashmeme2014-11-15 10:27 am

Chatter post

For all your discussion needs.

Ground rules:
- Try to keep it loosely trash party related, or at least Cap fandom related.
- Disagreement is fine, nastiness is not.
- Being offended is not carte blanche for nastiness.
- Trashmeme ground rules apply. Read at your own risk, no romanticizing your noncon garbage, no wank about the moral acceptability of noncon kink.
- Body shots, sniper shots, and tetanus shots are all available at the open bar. Party like it's 2014, kids.

Re: Post the rules at the top of every prompt post?

(Anonymous) 2016-05-27 06:35 pm (UTC)(link)
I actually had a lot of luck with one HTP-er when doing a combo of summarizing the rules plus pointing out how darkfic are highly controlled entities for exploring trauma. But I also realize that I’m lucky that I wasn’t flamed back because the person later admitted she had “unconventional methods” for dealing with trauma and that she took my word about what the rules were.

While she admitted she still had reservations about darkfic comms since you sometimes can’t tell who’s there to get their rape fantasy on vs. who’s there to get their rapist fantasy on, knowing the rules here really calmed her down about this darkfic comm.