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garbage all the way down ([personal profile] trashmod) wrote in [community profile] hydratrashmeme2014-11-15 10:27 am

Chatter post

For all your discussion needs.

Ground rules:
- Try to keep it loosely trash party related, or at least Cap fandom related.
- Disagreement is fine, nastiness is not.
- Being offended is not carte blanche for nastiness.
- Trashmeme ground rules apply. Read at your own risk, no romanticizing your noncon garbage, no wank about the moral acceptability of noncon kink.
- Body shots, sniper shots, and tetanus shots are all available at the open bar. Party like it's 2014, kids.

Re: Seriously curious - not trolling

(Anonymous) 2016-11-30 10:02 am (UTC)(link)
"the places where violent sex is portrayed (notably mainstream men's pornography) tend to be the kind of creepy I don't enjoy"

A-fucking-men to this. Even compared to most other fandoms I've been in, the HTP has been a breath of fresh air. Here I don't have to worry about stumbling over fics that romanticise or gloss over situations where consent is undermined or absent; rape is always recognised for what it is.

Re: Seriously curious - not trolling

(Anonymous) 2016-11-30 11:40 am (UTC)(link)
(OP) That's very true. HTP doesn't disguise it for anything other than what it is. I find a lot of het ships gloss over the abuse. The mods are good at clamping down requests where people try to get around this rule.