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garbage all the way down ([personal profile] trashmod) wrote in [community profile] hydratrashmeme2014-11-15 10:27 am

Chatter post

For all your discussion needs.

Ground rules:
- Try to keep it loosely trash party related, or at least Cap fandom related.
- Disagreement is fine, nastiness is not.
- Being offended is not carte blanche for nastiness.
- Trashmeme ground rules apply. Read at your own risk, no romanticizing your noncon garbage, no wank about the moral acceptability of noncon kink.
- Body shots, sniper shots, and tetanus shots are all available at the open bar. Party like it's 2014, kids.

Re: Seriously curious - not trolling

(Anonymous) 2016-11-30 06:00 pm (UTC)(link)
SA I want to add that I don’t think there’s anything wrong with liking 50 Shades of Grey or other works in that vein, or in not wanting your fantasy rape kink to include a clear condemnation in the narrative that it’s a bad thing. Rape-to-romance is its own genre of published fiction and in fan works, that has a legitimate right to exist on its own and is enjoyed by many people -- just like any other kink.

But just like a/b/o, mundane AUs, soulbond AUs, and other tropes/genres (see the front page of the meme for the full listing), rape-to-romance isn’t of interest to this specific anon meme space. Hence the "no fetishizing rape" rule, that you seem to have misinterpreted in a very literal way as somehow banning rape kink.