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garbage all the way down ([personal profile] trashmod) wrote in [community profile] hydratrashmeme2014-11-15 10:27 am

Chatter post

For all your discussion needs.

Ground rules:
- Try to keep it loosely trash party related, or at least Cap fandom related.
- Disagreement is fine, nastiness is not.
- Being offended is not carte blanche for nastiness.
- Trashmeme ground rules apply. Read at your own risk, no romanticizing your noncon garbage, no wank about the moral acceptability of noncon kink.
- Body shots, sniper shots, and tetanus shots are all available at the open bar. Party like it's 2014, kids.

Re: Popularity of an Idea =/= On Topic-ness of the Idea

(Anonymous) 2018-06-08 01:55 am (UTC)(link)
This. Thank you anon. This is what I've been screaming about. Let anyone that doesn't like our HTP dirty and badwrong in sexual ways post in the other thread.

Keep us moving forward in our own slow slug crawl. The trash I want is right here.

Re: Popularity of an Idea =/= On Topic-ness of the Idea

(Anonymous) 2018-06-08 02:05 am (UTC)(link)
NA: Ditto this. I'm gonna try to restrain myself from sniping at rude folks anymore and focus on filling a prompt instead.

Re: Popularity of an Idea =/= On Topic-ness of the Idea

(Anonymous) 2018-06-08 02:08 am (UTC)(link)
My hero.

Re: Popularity of an Idea =/= On Topic-ness of the Idea

(Anonymous) 2018-06-08 06:09 pm (UTC)(link)
And the entire point for a lot of people was that you need to be clearer about what "dirty and badwrong" means since it's pretty subjective. I've been here for years and enjoyed fills that didn't include rape but were still seen as "dirty and badwrong" then, and things can be sexual without being full on rape.

We like the dirty and badwrong. That's why we're HERE. It's not just a bunch of new people that don't like non-con. We've been here all along, reading and enjoying the same fic. We just also happen to want things like sexualized torture, too, which we previously could get here.

Maybe this would be a lot easier if the comm stopped using juvenile terms like dirty badwrong and outright used "non-con and non-con only" in the rules if that's what it's gonna be about.

Re: Popularity of an Idea =/= On Topic-ness of the Idea

(Anonymous) 2018-06-08 07:19 pm (UTC)(link)
Ya exactly. Also, as someone who has posted a not-explicitly-sexual prompt, it's not that I dislike like non con. If someone dislikes non con, I don't imagine them spending more than 5 seconds here, much less posting a prompt.

People request not strictly sexual prompts because

1.dirtybadwrong/trash/filth is a very broad term and can be interpreted both sexually and not

2. There is plenty of other things that can be non-con, not just sex (body modification, medical procedures etc)

3. there is more to writing Hydra/bucky r rated content than just rape scenes. There's things happening before and after, things that are implied. Things that make for an exciting read because they talk about the circumstances, which are more flexible and allow for a range of interpetations, rather than just offer straight up 'there was dick in ass, it felt bad' (which is a fun read in its own right of course, but sometimes u wanna go beyond that, u Kno?)