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garbage all the way down ([personal profile] trashmod) wrote in [community profile] hydratrashmeme2014-11-15 10:27 am

Chatter post

For all your discussion needs.

Ground rules:
- Try to keep it loosely trash party related, or at least Cap fandom related.
- Disagreement is fine, nastiness is not.
- Being offended is not carte blanche for nastiness.
- Trashmeme ground rules apply. Read at your own risk, no romanticizing your noncon garbage, no wank about the moral acceptability of noncon kink.
- Body shots, sniper shots, and tetanus shots are all available at the open bar. Party like it's 2014, kids.

Re: Non-con fantasies

(Anonymous) 2016-05-30 02:00 am (UTC)(link)
I'm ace and a masochist, and my fantasy always involves a power imbalance, and lots of being hurt, and rape fantasy alone usually doesn't do it for me, actually. It ranges from being slapped around and pain from overstimulation to stuff that isn't safe or sane (but hey that's what fantasies are for) - we're talking vivisection and torture that you don't really survive from, and the first tag I search for any new fandom I fall into is "torture." Not exactly an on-topic answer, but if we generalize to the topic of trash fantasies, yes, they're the only ones that get me off.

I haven't cared much for a sex life after figuring out the ace part, it's annoying and emotionally draining to pretend to enjoy it, and I'm too lazy/busy to find someone willing to hurt me.