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garbage all the way down ([personal profile] trashmod) wrote in [community profile] hydratrashmeme2014-11-15 10:27 am

Chatter post

For all your discussion needs.

Ground rules:
- Try to keep it loosely trash party related, or at least Cap fandom related.
- Disagreement is fine, nastiness is not.
- Being offended is not carte blanche for nastiness.
- Trashmeme ground rules apply. Read at your own risk, no romanticizing your noncon garbage, no wank about the moral acceptability of noncon kink.
- Body shots, sniper shots, and tetanus shots are all available at the open bar. Party like it's 2014, kids.

Re: Non-con fantasies

(Anonymous) 2016-07-08 02:46 am (UTC)(link)
For me in my irl sex life, some sort of power exchange has to exist for it to "work"; I'm not really into pain or humiliation (or rape play) irl, but I do need to feel like my partner has power/control over me. Otherwise I am just not gonna get anywhere. Service-oriented stuff, spanking/punishment, bondage, and sensation/impact play usually do it for me.

I love reading about noncon and there's definitely a kink/erotic aspect to it for me, but tbh most of the time I don't even really directly get off to HTP stuff. I usually read it with a combination of horror and pleasure and tuck away the things I like for my own future fantasy and play.